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Is sex wrong In a marriage?
Well, I’m a 23 year old male, and I’m getting married to this very beautiful woman that I love soon, but the thing Is I never want to have sex with her… ever! I think sex Is wrong and overrated In any relationship, especially marriage an It’s something I never want to be a part of! There are plenty of other activities to do In a marriage besides have sex, like go for a swim, eat and a movie, or play some fun board games. I just don’t get the point of sex, seriously? I’m not gay or nothing and I don’t need counseling, I had plenty of girlfriends In my life and I’m a virgin. I just hope my fiancee don’t give me such a hard time and agree with me? Btw, I love to masturbate alot, and I heard that It feels way better than sex, and It has more pleasure In It. I’m just a little confused to be honest, some opinions, suggestions, or feedback would help alot, thanks!
What a funny question it is. No, sex is not a wrong thing rather, it is very-very important thing in marriage. You don’t know the basic concept, meaning, definition, necessity & religious point of view of marriage system. You can’t truely love a girl who marries you & becomes your life partener without having sex at all. A human body has legimate & natural emotional, physical, psychological & mental needs which can best be fulfilled by marriage only as there is no better replacement of that. In marriage procedures, two important steps are there. First is wedding ceremony where you accept her as your wife in front of many & the second imp step is the first night in which both meet, mix up freely & have sex compulsorily to become husband & wife practically. Okay, if you don’t initiate for having sex but if she demands, you MUST fulfil that b/c in married life it is first responsibility of the married person to fulfil immediately any such demand at any time. You have to become a responsible husband & not a highly selfish one. If she demands, ask her to take the initiative of arousing you. The moment she does that, you will surely forget your rigidity against that & surrender to her demand. Surprisingly, you take interest in anti religious thing like masterbation but are shy of having sexual intercourse attaining orgasm, much more pleasant. Study on ‘Google’ search about “Sex Techniques” & “etiquettes of marrid life” in detail patiently & behave like a normal boy. Don’t discuss this thing with any one b/c all will say you to be an abnormal boy. Yes, you don’t need counselling but try to understand the meaning of marriage. Even use of contraceptive pills or codoms etc while having compulsory sex at first(golden) night is considered anti-religious & cowardice. Most of the girls don’t get pregnant at first night despite having multiple orgasms but that is a defferent topic. At that night both are supposed to sleep in arms of the parner, not having any clothe on their bodies. A girl’s sex appetite is much more than a boy. She can be aroused much faster too & enjoys much more too as God has made her so. If you refuse the very basic & most important need of her to fulfil after wedding ceremony, your marriage will end soon. After having first orgasm, you will take interest in that much more & make a definite U turn, I tell you frankly. Don’t behave like an irresponsible husband. Sex is NOT a wrong thing. It is like passion with the spouse & very important need of an adult human body like regular foods. Regular sex at least once in three days is very good thing to make the couple happy & satisfied. Sex abruptly eliminates many confusions, apprehensions, doubts, tensions of all kinds & keeps human body stronger & fitter. There is an old saying that if you have any tension making you restless, have sex attaining orgasm with your spouse & be comfortable within 15 minutes. At first night, most of couples have it at least five times & enjoy most pleasant & memorable moment of life well. Your knowledge is very poor about happiest possible human life.
After marriage, stop passing time with all girl friends who will end your marriage very easily & make hell of your happy life. There is NO scope for another woman in personal life of a married man & vice versa.
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