marriage counseling books

What do you do at marriage counseling.. is it productive?
What is the general format of marriage counseling, is it helpful? My husband and I have EVERY problem in the book and have our first appt today… what should I expect?
When my husband and I went to counseling I found it to be one of the best things ever. The therapist that helped us didn’t go straight into our problems, instead he just explained to us the different ways men and women think etc…then went on to give us little test to see where we were at with knwoing eachother in all kinds of ways….and this didn’t happen all in one appt. I had so much that I wanted to vent that very first time. But, the way that the therapist had us approach our problems was excellent. I hope that helps. Good luck. It is always good to have an unbias opinion to help you see how the other person thinks and feels.
Dr. Phil on Marriage Counseling